That's what I have to ask anyone who visits or calls, because it seems that there are so many people who read my blog and remember more about my life than I do! I'll have to save a few tidbits so that I'll have something new to tell people.
We had several visitors today: my friend, Amy and her mom, visited and brought dinner. Bill's new Hospice nurse came, as well as a resident doctor doing some shadowing. The Hospice Chaplain also visited. Bill was awake a bit more than yesterday and listened to his music.
Unfortunately, Jess didn't have a good day. Not quite sure what to think. Something awesome happened, though. She was sitting on the floor in the living room, quietly coloring. All of a sudden she started screaming and banging the floor. Before we could react, Memphis got up and went over to her and she snapped right out of that mood. Wow. I have to think about this.
I have stumbled onto your Blog. Sorry for what youre goin thru. Since you do need to prepare Jess I think that whatever final plans you have made you need to do a field trip. such as a walk thru a cemetary. or the like. just like the labwork this can also be a trauma for her & youll need all your strength to get thru this loss yourself. feel free to contact me. I just lost my inlaws within a week of each other in December.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Kathy, for your suggestions. They are appreciated.
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