One Goal Met Before The End of 2013

When I went in to have my knee surgery on November 7, I had quite a few ideas of things I wanted to do while recovering.  The only one I accomplished was to read.  I LOVE reading, and I haven't had a chance to read a lot this year, for one reason or another.  But since I wasn't able to be up and around for weeks, and then with the blood clots, I achieved my goal.  Here are the books I have read since November 7:

Colleen Coble  (author)

Tidewater Inn - last half

Rosemary Cottage

 

Dee Henderson

Danger In The Shadows (prequel)

#1 The Negotiator (O'Malley Series)

#2 The Guardian

#3 The Truth Seeker

#4  The Protector

 

Melody Carlson

The Christmas Shoppe

The Christmas Pony

 

Kat Martin

The Christmas Clock

 

Daniel Partner

The Wonder of Christmas

 

Stormie Omartian

Lead Me, Holy Spirit - last half

 

Annie Jones

Their First Noel

 

Charles & Frances Hunter

Healing Through Humor

 

Richard Paul Evans

Promice Me

Lost December

A Winter Dream

 

David Jeremiah

The 12 Ways of Christmas

 

Rick Warren

The Purpose of Christmas

 

I'm currently reading:

 

Dee Henderson   # 5 The Healer

   and

Lisa Troyer   A Place to Belong

 

 

Jess stayed in bed until about 1/2:00 today then came downstairs for the rest of the day.  She's better, but not great.  Jon did some "running around" in the morning.  I did a load of wash, watched a Hallmark movie Jon taped for me, and fixed a nice chicken dinner.  That's about it.  We're almost ready to call it a day and head upstairs.  I'm sure both kids will be sound asleep at midnight.  I'll be ringing in the new year by reading. 

 

I hope everyone has a very nice New Year's Eve.  Blessings on all for a wonderful New Year.

 



A Sick Jessie

Jess had a bad night last night and it was evident that she was sick.  Because our doctor's office was booked solid, we took her to Prompt Care.  I personally think she has a bladder infection, but whatever she has it's enough to put her on an antibiotic, Tylenol and Motrin.  As soon as she got in the car she started crying and didn't stop for quite awhile.  That was pathetic, as Jess rarely cries.  She went right to bed and that's where she is right now.

I stayed upstairs all day with her.  Unfortunately, I had several flashbacks of when I cared for Bill in his last days.  It was very overwhelming for me.  Jess doesn't get sick very often - in fact the last time was while Bill was dying.  I think she and I had food poisoning. 

I did paperwork while she rested and finished putting away stuff in my 2012 and 2013 diary.  The first page I opened in the 2012 book had the funeral card for Bill.  That did it.  I cried.  I sure do miss my Willlie.

Late in the afternoon I mentioned to Jess that she looked a bit better and she promptly replied, "NO, Jessie sick!"  I think she's enjoying all the attention she's getting, as well as being able to eat in bed! 

I "Went" To Church

Sort of.  I was sitting on my couch, wrapped up in a blanket, watching last week's sermon from our church.  I had no idea they had begun to video tape series. I knew there was audio, but it's not the same.  I had heard so much about last week's sermon that I was determined to listen to it today, and was surprised to be able to watch it. 

I up-dated my 2014 calendar with birthdays, appointments, Jon's work days, and who is working what days with Jessie.  That took a couple hours.  I did a load of clothes because I needed them.  Jess did her usual stuff, as well as took an hours nap.  When she woke she indicated that her legs hurt her and said, "I'm sick."  It's hard to tell with her sometimes because if someone else is sick in the house (like Jon who came home early), she mimics their illness.  She doesn't act sick.  We'll see what happens tonight and tomorrow.  Time will tell with her.

Saturday

If I hadn't set the alarm for 8:30 a.m. and Jess heard it, she would have kept sleeping!  She's becoming like her mom - up late and sleep in.  Rachel came today so that I could go out for a bit.  After the post office and Walgreen's, I had lunch with my friend, Lani.  Since she had shopping to do at Meijer's and that was my next stop, she went along with me.  I decided to walk and not use the electric amigo.  Half way through the store I was glad Lani was with me.  I wasn't sure I'd make it - I was exhausted and my back hurt a lot.  I pushed myself, though, and did it.  I have to keep working on my stamina.

Rachel took Jess to Ocean Breeze for lunch, the ST Library, then Target.  They had a nice day together.  Jon had to work again and didn't have a very good day, both physically and work-wise.  That's about it for now.  Upstairs we go!

Jess and Rachel In Backyard

I thought I'd take the time tonight to upload these pictures.  I knew you'd appreciate them. I appreciate it when Rachel or Debbie or Brenda take pictures of their outings, so that I can be part of Jessie's day. 

Good News!

I received the best news I've had in over two months this morning. I went to PT to be reevaluated, and I DON'T NEED PT !!!  My range of motion for my surgical leg is 0 and 110 degrees!  More than perfect!  I am so thankful that God took care of this for me.  I had planned on having all the PT done before the New Year when I'd have to start over with a new deductible and copay.  Since my blood clots put me behind a month, I wasn't sure what I was going to do.  I'm very pleased.  I plan on going to the pool a couple times a week to walk in the lazy river to build up my stamina, then take the Water Aerobics class in late February.  Only God could have done this and I Thank Him!

After my quick PT appointment, I picked up Lois and we went to lunch then saw the movie, "Saving Mr. Banks", which, by the way, was VERY good.  I got home just in time for Rachel to leave, rest a bit, fix dinner, then relax on the couch.  Now, if I can just get a doctor to prescribe Mobic or Celebrex again, I'd be doing REALLY well.  No one wants to put me on them along with the Coumadin.

Even though Jon is still not well, he had to go to work.  He does sound better than last night.  I'm sure he's going to sleep real well tonight.

Jess and Rachel went outside to play in the back yard in the snow.  I forgot to post the pictures.  Maybe tomorrow.  They're cute. 

The Day After Christmas

It's been a very quiet day.  I didn't feel like doing much, so I didn't.  Jon went back to Prompt Care and got a change of antibiotic, now for bronchitis.  Jess has been coloring in a big coloring book all day, plus she painted Christmas ceramic ornaments for her tree and I got her pillow that lights up put together.  Jacob and Hannah visited Jon for a bit this morning, then they went to lunch and then Jon went back to Jacob's parents house for the late afternoon and dinner.  Jane, Jess, Rachel and I met for dinner at the Hong Kong restaurant then came back here for presents and dessert.  We're on our way up stairs in a few minutes just as soon as I shut off all the Christmas lights throughout the house.

Merry Christmas

 We began with a Christmas Miracle this morning when Jess slept in until 7:45 a.m.!  That's unheard of for Christmas morning.  Since it was so late I had the kids get dressed then Jess helped Jon pass out presents.  As you can see, Jess got more than her required "ten presents".  She was very excited about all her gifts.

I made my mom's "Prize Coffee Cake" yesterday for us as a special treat for breakfast.  I don't make it often because I could eat the entire coffee cake myself.  Jon made us scrambled eggs and it made for a nice breakfast.

I wasn't feeling very well after I got the kitchen cleaned up, so I sat in my chair and took a nap for about an hour.  Jon took care of Jess.  Speaking of Jon, he's not any better than yesterday, in fact, he's worse.

Diane and Randie came over at 4:00 and brought the dinner - breaded sweet and sour chicken and pork, sweet potatoes and green bean casserole.  Jon made Red Lobster biscuits and dinner was great.  We topped it off with an apple pie someone gave me when I had my surgery.  It was from Westview Orchards, I froze it for Christmas, and it was delicious.  We've never had a pie from Westview before.  Only Verellen's.  Randie also made tiny lemon cakes - something like a small tart.  Yummy.

We opened presents again with Di and Randie after dinner and before dessert.  Memphis wanted what Di was opening.  He wouldn't leave her alone.  I guess he wanted the hand scrub for himself.  It does smell good!

Jess doesn't usually wear a hat, but I thought I'd see if she'd wear one that the younger kids (and some older ones are wearing).  She said it was "cute".

Jess and Jon have already gone to bed and I'm next.  Even though we didn't do much, I'm very tired. 

Merry Christmas to you!

Love,
Nancy, Jon and Jessie
Memphis, too

Christmas Eve

Jon began his day at Urgent Care with a diagnosis of a sinus infection.  He's not doing too bad and, hopefully, the medication will make him feel much better before he goes back to work.

I'm about ready to lose my mind answering Jessie's constant questions about Santa coming tonight, and if Aunt Diane and Randie will bring presents, too, tomorrow.  She's been asking to go to bed for a couple hours - right after our special dinner.  I'm holding her off as much as I can.  I really don't want to start Christmas Morning at 4 a.m.!

Jess received a special visitor around 1:00 today. Santa came and brought her some slipper socks and coloring book!  Now, that makes two days in a row that she's seen Santa.  We've got the plate of cookies and cup of milk ready for tonight's Santa, too.

Jon wanted a duck for Christmas Eve dinner, so he treated us to it.  It was very good.  We also had instant mashed potatoes with cream cheese and chives, along with Jon's garden sugar snap peas and carrots.  Jon and I cleaned up the apple pie Lois brought last night and Jess settled for a Christmas cookie.

Well, it's 8:14 p.m. and I think I can get her upstairs as soon as I shut off all the lights.  There will be no screaming from her in a few minutes when I tell her it's time to go to bed, that's for sure!  I guess I need to be thankful for the small things.

Let The Festivities Begin ...

Brenda came this morning and took Jessie to where she used to work at a day work shop for mentally challenged adults.  Santa visited around 10:30, and as you can see, Jess had no trouble being next to him, much to my surprise.  I figured she would have no part in being near Santa.  I'm glad I was wrong.

She was pretty wound up when she got home, too, because Brenda and Jessie drove Santa somewhere (I forget where) because his sleigh broke down.  He sat in the back seat with Jessie.  Brenda's daughter, Jessica, was also with them and she got a video of Jess and Santa.  It was hysterical.  If Jess could have gotten any closer to the door, she would have.  I think having him in a building was one thing, but to have him next to her in the car was another matter.  Way too funny.

This was the first Monday I have been able to take Jessie to lunch for Girl's Day Out since before my surgery.  We invited Doreen and Shiloh to meet us at Wendy's and we had a fun time eating lunch together.  They came back after lunch and we exchanged gifts. 

Tonight "Aunt" Lois came for dinner and when Jon got home from work (unfortunately he came home sick!) we exchanged more presents.  Jess was pretty excited and has insisted that tomorrow morning is Christmas.  Tomorrow will be a L-O-N-G day!

A Different Sunday Than Planned

Jon prepared last night for the predicted ice storm that we never got. Thinking that we would lose power, he got the extension cords, gas and generator ready, as well as some preparedness items we always keep on hand.  When he got up for church, there was nothing.  No ice - nothing on  his jeep.  So, he left to go to breakfast and church. 

I had gotten up earlier and went and sat down in my (electric) chair, with my feet up.  Jess was on my bed jabbering when at 8:30 the power went out.  I'm glad no one had a camera as I made my way out of the chair!  I let Jon know and he returned home.  We have 3 sump pumps and 2 of them fill up too fast.  I was so thankful that he gave up church to come home and take care of us.  Especially since he can only go twice a month as it is with his schedule.

Trying to keep Jessie occupied without her iPad and uTube she watches all the time is challenging.  When Jon started the generator she ran for her bedroom, as it is very noisy.  The power outage lasted only 2 1/2 hours, which was wonderful since Jon called DTE and their estimated time of power back on was 11:30 p.m.! 

Me:  Jess!  The power is on!  You can watch uTube!

Jess:  All done?

Me:  Yes.  We have power back.

 

5 minutes later:

 

Jess:  MOM?

Me:  Yes, Jess?

Jessie:  THANK YOU JESUS!

I wasn't having a good physical morning and by the time lunch came around I decided to treat the kids to Dimitri's for lunch.  So did the rest of the people without power!  We had to wait for a table.  Even though it was very crowded, Jess did well.  Chris called after her church was over and I ordered a dinner for her and she ate with us, then came and visited for a couple hours.

Jess and I wrapped some Christmas presents.  Still not finished.  They have to be done by tomorrow!

Changing Course

Jon, Lois and I had planned on going out to lunch then to see "Saving Mr. Banks".  However, we decided to cancel those afternoon plans when we read that we were supposed to have freezing rain beginning around 1:00 p.m.  Well, it's 7:31 p.m. and I don't think we've had any freezing rain yet.  As far as I'm concerned, we don't have to have it. 

Instead Jon and Jessie went with me to get another blood draw (that makes a total of 10 since December 2!) then I treated to breakfast out.  Walgreen's, post office, Home Depot for ice melter and K-9 for animal-friendly ice melter.  When I left the house this morning my pain level was about a "3" but when I got home it was a "7".  I had to take a pain pill and sit down and rest. 

Jon wrapped presents and Jess played on her iPad.  Unfortunately, she had a huge meltdown this afternoon.  I'm not sure why and I don't think she knew why either.  It's probably because Christmas is next week.  The excitement builds.  Right now she's singing Christmas Carols with kids on Utube.  She knows a lot of songs.  Even though she doesn't always keep up with the faster songs, the words are all there.  She definitely takes after her Grandma Jonas - she can't carry a tune at all.  But for her that doesn't matter.  I love to hear her sing - especially Jesus songs when she raises her hands praising Jesus. 

Thursday and Friday

Thursday ... We had an early morning meeting with Kelly, Jessie's case worker, then Brenda and Jessie went grocery shopping, McDonald's drive thru for lunch, then bowling.  

Yesterday was not a good physical day for me.  I was in a lot of pain.  I was so greatful that my friend, Denise, picked me up and took me to my doctor appointment.  Before we got there we went to lunch and Sam's Club.  I finished my Christmas shopping.  I prayed for an electric amigo and there were 5 available when we arrived and none when we left.

By the time I got home I was in really bad shape and spent the evening on the couch after a quick dinner.  We retired upstairs early and I took medication and sat in my chair in tears.


Today ... Friday ... Unbelievably, I woke feeling almost "normal"!  I was thrilled.  Hardly any pain!!!!  I had to go get another STAT blood test and Lois went with me.  We ate lunch at the Olive Garden and then went to Best Buy.  I picked up another couple DVD's for Christmas.  Hall Road was crazy.  It's a road I try to avoid at all times, especially during any holiday season.  Today was the worst I have ever seen it.  Then there was a tie-up on the expressway because they were transporting 4 pieces of 2 mobile homes.  Extra wide.  In the pouring rain.  I was glad when I pulled into my driveway.

Another Blood Test

I'm thankful that Jon was home today and he took me for my INR blood test.  From there we went to my family doctor appointment.  Tomorrow is the vascular specialist.  My INR only went up from 1.6 to 1.7.  I sure would like to ditch these Lovonox shots.  They don't hurt going in, but after a minute or two it feels like a couple bee stings going deep.  We'll see what the specialist wants to do. 

Rachel and Jess spent the day at home.  They made melty snowmen cookies.  They are cute.  I took a picture but didn't download it.  I'll have to do it tomorrow.  Lois came for dinner then we had our time of prayer.

Even though I don't understand why I just can't seem to get a break, or why I'm in so much pain all the time, or why all this is happening, I want to go on record as still TRUSTING God's plan for me.  It's not been easy, but I know He can be trusted to make all things work for good.  I get discouraged and cry and get down at times because I'm human.  Ultimately, I continue to PRAISE God for His care and faithfulness.  Just sayin'.

Monday and Tuesday

MONDAY ...  I had to go for another INR blood test.  Before I got home the results were called in to me: 1.6.  This is very discouraging.  It needs to be between 2.0 and 3.0.  I have to continue on the Lovonox shots 2x a day and have another STAT blood draw on Wednesday. 

I'm trying to remain positive, but I'm in such bodily pain each day it's hard. (My knee doesn't hurt at all!)   I personally think I'm having a reaction to the Coumadin.  My doctor doesn't think so.  He also had me stop the Celebrex.  Now I can't take anything for my arthritis.  I'll be lucky if I can walk at the end of 3 months.  I go see him tomorrow and we'll discuss this.  I don't think he realizes how bad I feel without either the Mobic or Celebrex.  I know I'm complaining.  Sorry.  I cry each day.  I'm sick of all these complications.  It just seems like I can't get a break. I know - I'm playing my violin. 

I did manage to go out last night and have fun with "the Glory Girls".  Above is a picture of us around Shannon's tree.  Pat, Mary, Shannon, Andrea, Lynn, Caroline and myself make up this small group.  Four of us began the group 10 years ago, and since then have added 3 more ladies.  I must say, they are all crazy women.

TUESDAY ...  Brenda and Jessie went swimming, lunch and shopping.  I wrapped all of Jessie and Jon's presents.  Late this afternoon Jess and I had hair appointments.  Jessie is seen in the picture with Veronica's granddaughter's doll house.  She goes to it each time she goes there and plays with it.  She's never had a doll house.  I stopped at Wendy's on the way home and bought dinner for Jess and me.  Jon had the day off and went out to breakfast, bank, Walgreen's, and Walmart.  Tonight he fixed himself a deer heart for dinner with mashed potatoes.  I cringe when I think of it and I'm glad I wasn't home to see him cut it up and smell it.  He was happy, though. 

My Kitchen Tree

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I've been looking for a tall skinny tree for my kitchen dining room for quite some time.  I finally found one that was reasonably priced in a "Terry's Village" catalogue.  I have it decorated with quite a few of my mom's "antique" kitchen utensils and a few kitchen themed ornaments that I have bought.  If you look closely at the second picture you'll see a tomato slicer with the original cover on it, a small slotted spatula, and tiny cookie cutters.  

 

I'm still not finished decorating.  I want to display my mom's Hallmark "doll house" ornaments that she's bought each year since 1988.  Maybe tomorrow.  I haven't had good physical days lately and nothing is getting done.  I've been in alot of body pain for several days.  I'm going to call AMS in the morning and see what they say.  I think it's a reaction to the coumadin.  That's my unmedical guess.  We'll see.

Not A Good Morning To Be Out

I had to go for another STAT blood test this morning and the weather was terrible. If it wasn't for the STAT report, I could have gone 3 minutes down the road.  Because of the STAT, I had to go a half-hour down the road (in good weather).  Roads were not scraped or salted.  Going over 30-35 mph was not possible.  I'm not sure how much snow we've gotten so far, but Jon's already 20 minutes late in getting home, and he's never late. 

Debbie went with me so that I could be dropped off  at the front door and she waited in the van with Jessie.

From there we went to breakfast at the Country Inn.  When we were coming back from the restrooms, Jessie was a bit goofy seeing a stuffed Santa and a nicely decorated tree.  I snapped a couple pictures.

When we got home, I was in rough shape again for some reason.  I hurt so bad I took a pain pill and relaxed on the couch while Jess was playing on the floor and playing with her iPad. 

I Am So Far Behind

I finally got to the bank today - the 13th - to do banking I usually do on the 3rd.  Just 10 days late.  I have a desk piled high of mail I've accumulated again for the week.  I still don't have all my decorations up.  Although I have Christmas cards and stamps ready, I most likely won't be sending out cards.  I LOVE to send cards to my family and friends.  I haven't even sent out "Thank You" cards to those who sent meals last month and helped out in various ways.  I do hate being behind. 

I managed to go to the post office, bank, a Hallmark store and got gas in the van.  By the time I got home I hurt so bad I had to take a strong pain pill and I slept for a couple hours.  I'm not sure what all that pain was about, but I did wake feeling very good. 

Jess and Rachel went out to breakfast then to the Shadbush Nature Center.  The rest of the day they spent vegging out in the family room.  Jon feels better today - thanks for the prayers.  He went to the show and saw "The Hobbit" - he's been waiting for this for months!  He wasn't disappointed. 

Jon's Tree

Since I shared pictures of Jessie's tree last night, I thought I'd share Jon's tree tonight.  Jessie took all the ornaments out of his container for him and he put them on his tree, which is in the living room.  It's neat to look at both trees, since I've been giving them ornaments since they were born, and I've also made ornaments out of small toys or items from their past that I didn't want to get rid of.

Jon is not doing very well at the moment.  He came home from work yesterday with a wrenched back again.  He was in quite a bit of pain and went to the doctors this afternoon.  Hopefully, he'll be better soon.

Jess and Brenda went grocery shopping, lunch, and bowling.  Once again a nice day for both of them. 

We aDebbie drove me to get my blood work, then I sat and waited a couple hours while she went to a doctor's appointment about 10 minutes from where I had to go.  It didn't matter to me.  I took along my book and finished it. 

We ate lunch then went to Family Christian Stores.  Walgreens and the post office finished my day.  I'm trying to build up stamina, but 1 store is about all I can do.  While I was at lunch I received my INR report and it is still too low: 1.3.  Back to the shots and up on the coumadin pills for a couple days.  Another blood draw on Saturday. 

Random Pictures

Rachel took the picture of  Jessie in the leaves about a month ago.  She said that Jess kept running and jumping in the leaves and Memphis kept running over to her to make sure she was OK.

 

When Jane was here one Monday she helped Jessie decorate the big tree in the family room.  Usually it's our family tree, but I decided to let Jess put all of her ornaments on it this year.  She spends alot of time on the floor by the tree, so I thought she'd enjoy it. She's claimed that corner of the family room.  Usually we put up one in her bedroom, but she doesn't spend much time in there anymore. 

 

The picture to the left is the completed tree with a very nice picture of Jess, if I do say so myself.  Most of the time she has goofie faces.  I got a good one this time!  The one with Jane is a good one, too!

 

I goofed off this morning because there wasn't any reason to get up (Rachel was here today) and do anything except paperwork, which I'm so far behind anyway that a few hours wouldn't make a difference.   Around 12:30 I decided to go out.  This was the first time I've driven by myself since November 6!  I went to the post office, Walgreen's, McDonald's drive thru and ate in the van during a snow squall.  I went to K-Mart and spent a couple hours riding up and down each aisle on their only electric Amigo, which beeped the entire time because it needed recharging.  I was able to complete gift buying for Jessie. 

 

By the time I got home I was exhausted, but I felt good that I was able to get out and try to begin getting back to normal.  Rachel and Jessie just hung out at home and then made gingerbread cookies from a box mix I had bought last year after Christmas!  They are really good. 

 

 



Jessie's Fantastic Day

Brenda and Jess started out the day with breakfast at home then a trip to the gym to swim in the pool.  Later they picked up a Subway sandwich for Jess then drove to Brenda's house for a special get-together with a friend from Ontario.  Brenda said that Jess was awesome and made a fast friend with her friend, Dawn.  While there, Jessie decided that since there were so many presents already under the tree, she'd see who they were to and change things a bit.  While Brenda quietly watched (laughing hysterically), Jessie took every present out from under the tree and added her name to the gift tags, crossing off her daughter Jessica's name and adding "Jessie".  Then she piled up all the gifts in one big pile.  She also told Brenda that all those presents were hers.  Now, if it were me, she would have altered one gift tag, then I would have moved her, but Brenda said she was having so much fun watching her that she could care less what the tags said.  She left us tonight still laughing. 

Brenda and Jess picked me up at 3:30 to go to the foot doctor.  We waited 1 hour to see her and all she did was give me some bio freeze to rub into my foot and told me to run my foot over a frozen water bottle.  She was pretty sure that the pain I'm feeling is mostly the blood clot and only a small part plantar fasciatis.  She also said I needed to go back to PT immediately for my knee.  Which I can't, because my INR was only 1.2 yesterday and therapeutic range is 2.0-3.0.  This could take forever and no one wants to take the responsibility of sending me back to PT in case I throw a clot or bleed to death.  It is very frustrating to say the least. 

My appointment was in Rochester and we didn't get out until almost 5:30 so we went to Alex's Restaurant for dinner then Brenda drove us through downtown Rochester to see all the lights, which totally wound Jessie up.  In fact, she's still wound up.  Considering the day she's had, you'd think she would be tired.  Oh, no.  Not my girl.   

Thank You, Jon

Jon took me to get my blood work this morning for my latest INR reading then treated me to breakfast.  From there we went to Walgreen's and I actually was able to walk around Michael's!!!  That was a major accomplishment.  However, by the time we got home after the post office, I was ready to sit down and put my throbbing feet up.  I have to say, though, it was really nice to get out of the house and not go to a doctor's appointment or the hospital.  I did a bit of Christmas shopping at Michael's.

Tomorrow I have a foot doctor's appointment.  We shall see what can be done about the pain in my left foot.  My left baby toe is also still paralyzed.  That is so wierd.  I can feel it when I touch it, but it just won't move. 

Jane played several games of Apples 2 Apples with Jess, took her to McDonald's drive through then had a picnic in her car for lunch.  Later they spent some time outside.  Jon did quite a few odds and ends for me.  Things I still can't do. 

A Quiet Sunday

Jon went to church and Jess and I lazed around this morning taking our time getting up and having breakfast.  We were just finishing when Jon returned home!  I've done paperwork, read some in a Christmas book, decorated my kitchen tree, more paperwork, and helped Jessie help Jon put ornaments on his tree.  I should have downloaded the pictures and I could have put them on here.  I'll have to take time to download pictures tomorow.  That's about it.  My foot continues to hurt and both legs have ached for the past several days.  The Celebrex I have to take now instead of Mobic isn't quite doing the job that Mobic did (for arthritis), so I have added discomfort from Arthur. 

Not What I Had Expected

Before my surgery I had quite a few ideas of how I would get caught up on things around the house as I was recouperating.  The month of November is gone and we're already at December 7 and nothing has been done.  I sure didn't expect to have such a hard time with pain, PT or 1 ER visit and another hospital admittance for complications.  Just making it through each day has been a challenge and when I did have time to sit down, working on a project was the last thing I wanted to do.  I got organized to do paperwork yesterday and it's still untouched. I at least have neater piles.

Having the internet/e-mail working again has been nice.  Jess went two days without her uTube.  She was pretty good about it.  She gave Jon a big hug and said, "Thank you!" to him when he worked with Comcast to get it back.  That was special to watch.

 

All's OK

I will be blogging more tonight, but you haven't heard from me because our internet has been down for a couple days.  Jon worked on it this morning with Comcast and we're up and running again.

A Weepy Day

I had two doctor appointments scheduled but I was only able to do one.  My family physician wanted me to have a STAT doppler on my leg to see if any of the blood clots had moved or another had formed since I am experiencing pain above my knee.  Unlike Friday's doppler, today's was torture.  The technician pushed so hard I cried through the entire scan.  I should have insisted she stop and had them go get Jon but I wasn't thinking clearly. I kept telling her it hurt but she never quit pushing.

When I finished with it I broke down and sobbed and shook and cried for probably another 45 minutes.  I think the test pushed me over the edge.  The entire month caved in on me.  I am being very transparent.  It's not easy admitting I couldn't handle it this afternoon.  Maybe I just needed a good cry to help me emotionally.  I am better this evening. 

Tomorrow marks 4 weeks since my surgery and it has been a very rough 4 weeks.  I had hoped to be half-way finished with PT.  I can't go back to PT until my family doctor or AMS releases me.  (AMS = Anticoagulation Management Services).  They monitor my INR, which yesterday's blood draw was way too high at 3.9.  Now we have to work to get it back down between 2 and 3. 

Rachel came and Jess made brownies. Rachel sent me a picture and I will work on them tomorrow and post it, along with pictures Brenda took at the zoo and one with Jane and Jess decorating the tree in the family room.  Instead of all my ornaments on the tree this year, Jess put all hers on the big tree.  It's really nice. 

Christmas decorating is taking forever this year.  I can only do about 15 - 30 minutes a day then I'm done.  Usually by this time I've been done before Thanksgiving.  Oh, well. 

An Unexpected Set Back

For those of you that read my daily posts, you've noticed that I haven't been on here since Thanksgiving Eve.  Thanks, "Anonymous", for your nice note!

For the past several weeks I have dealt with pain in my left foot (same leg as surgery).  It had gotten so severe that by Thanksgiving night I could barely walk.  The kids and I were invited over to Don and Rox's for dinner, which was super nice and appreciated. 

Friday morning I decided to  go to our family doctor.  From xrays he couldn't see anything that would indicate a break in a bone.  Even though I didn't have any symptoms of a blood clot, he sent me to the hospital for a doppler of my leg.  Well, not only do I have 1, I have 3 DVT's (deep vein thrombosis, or in other words, the bad blood clots that can travel to your heart and lungs). 

They sent me directly to the ER and I was in the hospital from Friday afternoon until Sunday afternoon.  I was on strict bed rest - absolutely no walking.  Since I have no pain from the DVT's or my foot if I don't walk on it, I was feeling OK.  It was a very aggrevating couple of days.

Since it happened so quickly, and no one was scheduled to be with Jess on Saturday or Sunday, I had to scramble from the hospital and arrange aides, friends and my sister to be with her.  I am so thankful that God got it organized.  My friend, Lois, would come at 6:00 a.m. until an aide could come at 8:30 a.m.  (This was Jon's 3-day weekend to work and couldn't take off.)  For the two days, Jess had 3 or 4 people each day care for her for a period of time.  She had a great time with each person, but wasn't really taking it very well by bed time.  We Face Timed on Sunday night which helped.   

When I finally got home, she was absolutely nasty to everyone until she broke down and cried.  I held her and comforted her the best I could.  There wasn't time to perpare her - I simply went to the doctor and didn't come home for 3 days.  It was rough on all of us.

So, I'm home, with restrictions until I can see numerous doctors. Tomorrow I have 2 appointments that Jon will take me to.  I still can barely walk.  About 3-5 minutes before the pain becomes unbearable.  I'm either walking on a blood clot (one is behind my knee, in the calf and under the heel) or something else.  We'll see.  Prayers would be appreciated.

More tomorrow, as I need to head upstairs. 

Thanks, Doreen!

Tonight my friend, Doreen, cooked a delicious dinner and brought it to our house and Jess, Doreen, Shiloh and I ate together.  That was such a nice thing to do.  I've been feeling lonely lately and I enjoyed her visit.  Thanks, Doreen!

An Exhausted Jess? Where Is She?

Brenda had Jessie out all day. They went to the Rec Center and began in the pool.  After that they spent a good hour and a half in one of the gyms playing basketball, soccer and hockey.  Brenda said she was running around and huffing and puffing like crazy.  From there they had their Subway sandwiches then walked the mall !!!!  Is Jessie sleeping?  Hardly.  She's singing Christmas carols at the top of her lungs. 

I had my first outpatient PT this morning.  I'm grateful for Lois who took me there and picked me back up, since I'm still not driving.  I iced my leg this afternoon for a couple hours and have been pretty "down" since then.  I'm not sure why, just am.  I think I'm going to have to call the doctor tomorow to check on my foot.  It's still hurting alot. 

Probably I'm feeling sorry for myself.  I want to decorate the house for Christmas and I'm very limited.  I need to shop for presents, as I didn't get it done before I had surgery, and I don't have the energy to even think about it, let alone go.   I'm missing some Christmas activities.  I'll have to have a talk with myself tonight and snap out of this depressing mood. 

Jane and Jessie

Jess had a great Girl's Day Out with Jane. They went to Target, Aldi's, Ocean Breeze for lunch, Kroger's and a couple other places.  Jane said she was great!  However, just as soon as she walked in the door, she saw Jon at the table, the door bell rang and the dog started barking.  Then it was Jessie's turn.  She hollered and screamed for about a half hour.  No one could figure out what had happened, especially Jane, as she said she was fine all morning!  She's usually pretty strung out when she gets home, even if she has a good time.  I think with everything happening at once, she just couldn't handle it.

My last in-home PT was today.  Out patient PT is tomorrow.  When I came home my range of motion for my knee was 40 degrees.  Today it was 90 degrees.  A nice improvement.  It needs to be 110 degrees. 

However, now I have a problem with my left foot.  It is swollen and it's very painful to walk on.  My PT fellow feels that it is the blood pooling in my foot from the bruising in my leg.  I'd appreciate prayers as I really don't want to have to go back to another doctor to see what's going on.  He told me to take it easy the next couple of days to see if that helps.  That's about it for tonight.  I'm heading up the stairs.

Movie Day

Jon had the weekend off so he was able to go to church.  I don't think I'll be ready for quite some time, as I can't sit still for more than 5 minutes without having to adjust my leg.  He went to Kohl's after church and bought a very-much-needed winter coat. 

For lunch Jon, Jess and I ate ham and cream cheese roll ups, cheeze its and popcorn in the living room while we watched "Monsters University" that I had bought to watch while recovering.  Jess lasted about half-way through then retreated to the family room.  It was a cute movie and Jon and I enjoyed ourselves.  I should take the time more often and just sit down and watch a movie.  I enjoy doing that, I just don't do it.

I'm on my way upstairs for the night.  I didn't get a chance to ice my leg so I need to do it before going to bed.  Thanksgiving will be 3 weeks from surgery and I'm sure the company will be collecting the machines right after, since I could only have them for 21 days. 

Thank You Community Care Volunteers!

I thought it was time for some Jessie pictures.  After Halloween and before I had surgery, Jess and I went to Wendy's and they still had some Shrek Kid's Meal toys left.  The manager gave Jessie her pick.  Doesn't she look cute in Shrek ears?

The bottom picture was taken tonight as Jon fixed dinner and Jessie helped me unload the dishwasher.  She does a really, really good job. 

I managed to pay 3 bills, do 2 loads of wash, and help Jon fluff the branches on the living room Christmas tree.  I also iced my leg for quite a bit this afternoon.  I'll share here what I put on FB when I sat down to rest ...

"There's nothing quite like resting in a chair on a blustery winter's day with one leg wrapped in a 43 degree ice wrap from ankle to above the knee.  30 minutes of cold and compression.  30 minutes off then on again.  Not to mention sitting next to a window air conditioner I have failed to seal for the winter.  Yup, there's nothing quite like it.  Oh and did I mention that I'm still waring shorts?"

Despite the horribly cold and winter morning, two families came from church (Community Care Program) and raked my leaves.  Their work is really appreciated.  They did a great job!  I am so glad that the leaves will not be there come spring. 

Oh, The Weather Outside is ... Yucky!

And that's just about how I felt today, too.  No energy, no desire to get up and do something useful.  I've been freezing all day so I finally turned up the furnace 1 more degree.  My nurse paid me her last visit today and we had a nice conversation.  She did alot of encouraging me.  My PT came in the afternoon and will come again on Monday, before I begin out patient PT on Tuesday. 

Jessie's day was off, too.  She did alot of yelling and screaming with Rachel.  They did go out to breakfast and the post office, but Jess refused to do much of anything.  I'm not sure how Jon's day has gone, as he's not home yet.

I have to share with you what I wrote on FB last night at 11:00 p.m. ... "Ive been in my bedroom chair for the past 2 hours hooked up to the DVT machine.  About a half hour ago I began craving a sweet and salty granola bar, but decided it wasn't worth unhooking myself from the machine and rehooking again.  Guess what happened?  The battery died!!  Had to get up and find the manual and figure out what to do.  The granola bar hit the spot, too!"

Gotta keep the humor in all this, that's for sure.

Jessie's Fun Day

Brenda took Jessie to Meijer's grocery shopping, post office, gas station, McDonald's drive thru for lunch at home and a meeting with Jessie's Case Worker. Then they went bowling in the afternoon, and didn't get home until almost 5:00 p.m.  It was so strange for me to be alone in the house - it doesn't happen very often. 

For some reason the bottom of my left foot - on the right side hurts quite a bit.  We think it's because the blood from my bruising is moving down into my foot and causing pain.  It hurts to walk.  I've been downstairs almost all day - did a couple loads of wash and started some paper work when I decided I need to rest and ice my leg.  I think I'm about ready to do that again.  When the machines were delivered before my surgery, the fellow said that the ice machine would become my best friend.  I know what he meant.  Having a large wrap on your leg that also compresses and the temperature is 43 degrees isn't fun, but it has reduced swelling in my leg, which is really important in movement.  I look forward to the daily swelling reduction, but I also have to wrap up with quilts when using it. 

The Day's Agenda

Up at 6:30 a.m. and took a pain pill.

Slept in chair until 9:00 a.m.

Got ready for the day and straightened up the bedroom.

Felt pretty good.

Jon ate breakfast out and brought me breakfast back.

Put a load of wash in and straightened the kitchen.

Back upstairs to ice my leg, took a pain pill and rested until the nurse came.

BP was high when she first took it and I told her she just doesn't know how to take it. 

Took it again in a different area and it was better.

 

My personal torturer arrived and he worked with me for an hour.

He said I'm doing really well, so he showed me more exercises to add to my torture regime.

As soon as he left I went in the CPM machine for an hour.

Then the ice machine and DVT machine for another hour.

Then it was time to fix dinner. 

(Hey, I think I forgot to eat lunch!)

Dinner, cleaned up kitchen, e-mail and now this blog.

My leg is hurting quite a bit tonight from exercise, plus my bruising is

moving down my leg and going into the foot, which makes it hard to walk on.

 

Jon had running around to do today, like bank, post office, etc.

He also winterized the playhouse and put all the deck stuff in the playhouse.

Another job off our list of "To Do's" before winter.

We're a bit behind.

 

Doreen and Shiloh were here for a couple hours, Jessie is getting used to Shiloh

being here and they seemed to have a fun time together. Doreen texted me later in the

day that said she asked Shiloh what the best part of her day was and she said, "Jessie". 

 

Rachel was here for Jessie today and they went out to Rachel's house for awhile

and Rachel and Jessie made lunch together there.

 

That's all I can remember. 

The pain medicine is messing with my brain.

Really!  When was the last time I FORGOT to eat a meal?

 

 

 

 

 

Set Backs and Accomplishments

I have "graduated" from the walker to a cane, and only use the cane when I am out of the house.  I took a shower this morning and didn't have to use the shower seat.  I only have to wear one leg stocking.  I am walking normal for the first time in years - no waddling like a penguin.  I have been able to be downstairs for hours each day.  All these accomplishments may seem trivial, but in my recovery, they are just steps back to my "normal" life of being self-sufficient.  I can also put my DVT "puffers" on my self and even the ice wrap.  The only help I need is each morning getting on my support hose - I just can't to that and probably won't ever be able to do it.  They're like putting rubber on one's leg. 

Since my surgery my BP has been quite high.  It got to 200/98 in the hospital. Since I've been home it hasn't been much better - in the 180's and 190's over in the 90's.  My pulse rate has been 120.  Not a good combination.  Making a long story short, I spent 7 hours in the ER last night per my doctor's request to see if there wasn't something making it go up. 

I am asymptomatic.  Praise God that all tests looked great. There doesn't seem to be anything causing the high blood pressure, except for pain. In the ER my BP last night was 215/115 with a 108 heart rate.  So annoying.  Especially since I'm feeling good.  As good as I can be after a major surgery.  I'm not in pain all the time either. 

We (Jon and I) got home about 1:30 this morning.  Lois was here when we left then Diane came and spent the night with Jess.  Today Jon took me to the doctor and he changed my BP medicine.  Now it's a waiting game and adjustment period.  Let's pray that it doesn't take long to get my BP to a level state. 

Jess had a hard time with me leaving so quickly last night, but she was OK when I got home.  She held on to me for quite a bit.  Brenda had her out almost all day (pool, gym, Subway, Westview Orchards) and I'm sure she's probably asleep already, as she decided to go to bed about a half hour ago on her own.   

I have much to be grateful for.  Thank you all for being my support team!

I Have Returned - Again!

One week ago yesterday I had my total left knee replacement. One week ago today I sat in PT and cried uncontrollably.  The pain was so intense and I felt like a total wimp since all the other people in the room were at least 10 years older than myself. I later had another nerve block which helped and it turned out that the pain medicine I was taking wasn't enough. I needed MORE!

They weren't kidding when they said they got you up between 4 and 5 a.m. for the day. One day it was 3:15 a.m.  PT 4x a day. I'm glad I didn't have much company. I was too exhausted from working so hard.

I returned home on Sunday. PT began Monday and because I don't have a good range of motion, he was scheduled for every day this week. I cancelled yesterday because it just wasn't a good physical day for me. All these exercises are flaring up my back, which is bad,,

Jess has adjusted well. She helps me when she can and makes sure I'm covered up. I'll try posting a few pictures shortly, since I'm doing this on my iPad. Jon has been a tremendous help for me, taking care of Jess and all that goes into running a household. Not to mention having to go to work!

I'll end right now and will try posting daily again.

Surgery Date - Thursday, November 7

I want to thank "Becky" and "Anonymous" for their notes of encouragement.  I needed them tonight because, as hard as I try, I'm a bit of a wreck about Thursday.  I'm not worried about anything specific regarding my surgery and recovery.  It's my concern about Jessie.  She had a mini meltdown this afternoon about my surgery.  I felt bad, but I guess she needed it.  She's perfectly fine right now - she's laying on the couch with her iPad singing along to Jesus songs.  I should take my cue from her and go upstairs and sing Jesus songs, too, as an audible reminder to me that God is in control - He loves Jess even more than I could ever love her and she'll be OK. 

I am very glad that Jon has sacrificed several days off of work without pay to be with me for the surgery and afterwards.  Nothing like having my own private nurse!  Please pray for him as he juggles being my coach, my care giver, Jess and the house.  I couldn't have asked for a better son.  The name "Jonathan" means "Gift of God", and he surely has been. 

Well, if I don't write tomorrow night, don't worry.  I'll try to remember.  I have to get up at 3:45 a.m. in order for us to leave at 4:30!  I am NOT a morning person.  I'm sure I've said this before.  I'll be back after my surgery.  Counting on all of your prayers!

Well, Today Didn't Start Out Well

One of my new hires for Monday and Thursday's did not come today or call.  And still hasn't called.  Today was supposed to be the day I would have "trained" her on Jessie's morning routine, and where everything is located, etc.  Thursday is my surgery day, so I'm scrambling to redo the day's coverage.  Please pray that it will work out.  I'm more concerned for Jessie's care than my own.  She doesn't do well with change, and she's had so much change in the past couple of years.  It takes months to get her into a new routine.  It's not an easy thing to do.

I did paperwork this morning and paid bills that I would normally do on Friday.  Jess and I went to the bank, Wendy's for lunch, then I got my hair cut so that it will be easier to manage in the hospital.  Jane made a meal for us tonight and Rox made another meal that we'll eat tomorrow night.  I appreciate these meals so much.  Thanks, Friends!

Two more days to get things in order.  And counting ...

Explain Daylight Savings Time To Memphis

For breakfast this morning Jess and I had pumpkin pancakes I had made in March and sealed in my Food Saver.  They tasted like I had just made them.  I was very pleased.  I did paperwork and continued with piles in the dining room - putting things back where they belonged.  Jess and I met Di and Randie at Leo's Coney Island for lunch, only we left since there were no tables available and people were in line.  We walked to Sahara Restaurant and there were only 2 tables occupied, so we would have had a nice quiet lunch if not for Jessie's boisterous voice. 

Di and Randie came back to the house and visited for several hours.   Jess was OK for awhile then started screaming at us to go into the other room. When I refused, she got up and went to her bedroom.

Around 3:00 Memphis started whining and being a pest.  Finally I realized that it was time to feed him, as it was 4:00 yesterday's time!  Who ever invented Daylight savings time never had animals or children, that's for sure.  It messes up everything.  Jessie wanted to go upstairs to bed at 7:30 !!! 

Doreen came over for awhile and visited, as well as Chris. A nice Sunday.

Jessie's "Great Day"

According to Rachel, Jessie had a "great day"!  Jessie folded towels, did a couple art projects, then they met Jane at Ocean Breeze for lunch.  Next they went to Michael's and Jess bought a turkey craft, which she made this afternoon.  They walked all the way down to Target and walked around.  Lots of exercise for them both.  When they got home they vegged out for a bit then Rachel decided we should have taco salad for dinner, and since I had all the fixin's, Jess and Rachel made the meat sauce and Rachel cut up the tomatoes.  I was so thankful for that because I am in so much discomfort, that standing and making dinner is a chore. 

I managed to go to the bank, Walgreen's then I visited Debbie for a couple hours.  She was moving better than I was!  She's doing well, but it still will take a long time to get off pain medicine and those ribs and collar bone to heal.  Continued prayers are appreciated.  It was good to just sit and talk for awhile.  I miss her alot. 

A Different Day

Rachel didn't come today because she wasn't feeling well, so at the last minute Jon and I had to take Jess to breakfast because they were meeting Jessie's case worker, Kelly.  When we got home Jon left and went to the movies for a change.  By 11:00 I was taking pain medicine.  My pain level today was pretty bad and I even resorted to getting out the walker. 

I had committed to helping set up at church this afternoon for a SM conference tomorrow, as well as being there tomorrow to man the author's room, but I cancelled my attendance to both.  I hated to do it, but not being able to walk hampers my being able to help.  It's not only my knee, it's my entire body.  The daily medication I take really keeps this pain at bay on a regular basis.  I'll be glad when I can begin taking it again. 

There really isn't much else to say.  I rested for a good deal of the day.  I asked Jessie where she wanted me to sit this afternoon and she said in the family room with her.  That was OK for awhile until she started yelling at me to go in the other room, which I did not do.  Screaming lasted for about 15 minutes with me ignoring her when she finally went up stairs to her bedroom. 

Halloween Memories

 

 

Jessie has been totally obsessed with Halloween for the past month, but when the fire whistle blew tonight, she just about lost it.  She was very upset about mummies coming.  Jon tried to reassure her that there were no mummies. 

 

I asked Jon tonight if he remembered Halloween nights at Grandma Jonas' house when he was young.  He said he did.  They were some great times.  When we had the kids, we took them to Grandma's house for a quick dinner then trick or treating down her street.  Jessie's picture above is from 1995 (5 years old) and Jon's from 1992 (4 years old).  Diane and Randie, my brother and his family would also come.  It was also Ed's birthday.  Today would have been his 54th birthday.

 

Halloween for Ed, Di and me was a really great night, too.  Mom made all of our costumes.  One of our neighbors, Mrs. White, would usually dress up like a witch and sit on her porch with a very large cauldron filled with worms (spaghetti).  We had to do something (can't remember what we had to do!) before she would give us any candy.   

 

 

Date Date With Doreen

Doreen and her family have been back now for one month.  Today we went out to "just get away" for a bit.  We went to the Christmas Tree Store, had lunch at Red Lobster then dessert at Menchie's.  It was a beautiful weather day, and it was fun being together. 

Rachel was with Jessie today and beside picking up dog poop, Jessie folded towels and emptied the dishwasher.  Then Rachel and Jess picked up Subway sandwiches, went to Rachel's house to eat lunch then walked her neighborhood looking at Halloween decorations.  They also made Halloween cookies Jessie painted a pumpkin.  I do believe they had a good day together, too.

Jon had a pretty good day at work, too. 

Welcome Brenda!

Today Jess and I spent quite a bit of time with Brenda, Jessie's new aide for Tuesday's.  Although she doesn't have any of her paperwork or classes done, we hope that she will be able to get them done and start in a couple of weeks.  We went to the MTRC and Jessie showed her the cabana rooms and the pool.  Brenda will be making sure Jessie has alot of physical activity on Tuesday's, especially swimming when she can.

When ever I go on vacation, I try to get my house in order.  Paper piles are cleaned up or taken care of.  House cleaned, etc.  I've been doing the same thing since I'll be out of commission for several weeks.  I have numerous piles that need to be taken care of before next Wednesday, or the piles need to be made neater.  One small pile was taken care of this afternoon.  Only about 10 to go.

Information Overload

I have to admit that today was a very trying day for me emotionally.  I was glad Jon was with me and kept encouraging me.  I had a 9:30 a.m. appointment at the hospital for pre testing (for my total knee replacement surgery on November 7), which only took about a half hour and went well.  I had a very caring nurse, Cookie, who even gave me a hug when I left. 

Next was the 2-hour long class for hip and knee replacements.  By the time the lecturer was done, I was, too.  I turned to Jon and said, "I don't think I signed up for this!"  I was on information overload and wanted to get out of that room as soon as I could!  The last time I had major surgery was 25 years ago.  Six weeks after Jon was born I had my gall bladder out.  I have the 12" scar to prove it.  Back then you went in and you knew what type of surgery you were having but they didn't share much.  Now, I think we're told TOO much. The only thing that was lacking today was the graphic pictures from the operating room.  Thank you, Jesus!

There was one nice thing about today's lecture and that was the fruit and the super huge oatmeal raisin cookies they had for break time.  I also thought there were large, wrapped individual chunks of cheese on the table, too, but they turned out to be the scrub we need to wash with the night before our surgery!!!!  Jon laughed quite a bit over my mistake. 

We grabbed a quick Wendy's lunch and made it to my next appointment at 1:30 p.m. for my right shoulder.  The same doctor that is doing my knee surgery also does shoulders (how convenient).  An ultra sound "suggests that there is a tear in the miniscus", so I'll have to have an MRI to make sure.  Because my knee comes first, he gave me a shot of cortisone to help the pain, and I'll schedule an MRI in about 6 months.  Yippee!

Jess had a good day.  I'm glad someone did.  Jane took her to an exercise class, the park, Ocean Breeze for lunch then back home to hang out and play games.  Jane looked tired when she left and Jess was just beginning to wind up just for me.  She screamed at me for the next hour or so.  I know she's upset about Debbie not being here and about me going to have surgery, and she can't tell me how she feels, but yelling at me is getting old.  Very old.   

Today Would Have Been Bill's 67th Birthday

Believe it or not, I forgot all about it until Jon and I were at church tonight for a special meeting and the date was announced.  Doreen told me she had been praying for me all day, and I'm glad she did.  Otherwise, I might have gotten melancholy.  Or not.  I don't know.  I do know that I would have reminded Bill that he was 6 years older than me.  Since we met that was a running "argument", as I was born on October 1 and he was born on the 27th. 

Jon went to first service, I went to second, then the 3 of us met Chris, Sean and Ashley at Kwong Tong for a Chinese lunch.  It's pretty much a "safe" place to take Jess since there usually aren't many people in there and she loves sweet and sour chicken with the rice and egg roll. 

Jon made me a map of area restaurants that I offered to do for a SM conference next Saturday.  Chris came and watched Jessie while Jon and I went back to church for a meeting on a proposed building addition.  I'm very thankful she came so that I could be part of the meeting.  "Thanks again, Chris!"

Family Date Day

My surgery date is quickly approaching and today was one of the last days the 3 of us could go away and have a date day.  Since I was in so much pain last night, I had asked Jess if we could stay home, but she was adament that she wanted to go see the "big boats", and especially since she had purchased snacks just for today. 

Thankfully, I woke feeling better - I went to bed at 10:00 (something I rarely do) and didn't get out of bed until 10:00 a.m.  Jess slept in til 8:00 and Jon 10:10.  We left for Tim Horton's around 11:00 for our traditional vacation breakfast: bagels and cream cheese and a few TimBits.  We decided to go to Port Huron the long way - 23 Mile to Algonac then up to Port Huron.  We went into the Algonac State Park and watched a few young men skeet shoot.  There were still quite a few campers in their park, too.  The water was very blue and VERY choppy.  We happened to be driving by when one of the car ferries for Canada left the dock and it looked like it was going to tip over - if I had been on that boat, I surely would have been screaming, that's for sure.  It was really rough waters.

It was a beautiful day and the colors were spectacular; until we were almost to Port Huron when it looked like it was going to storm.  We ate an early dinner at Cracker Barrell, which included their coca cola chocolate cake for dessert.  It was SOOO good, but very rich.  Maybe once a year we can splurge on it - Jess and I shared one so we didn't have too much.  We then shopped at Mary Maxim's.  Jess got herself a paint set and I bought a cute scarecrow doll for inside the house at 60% off.  We were going to do more shopping, but it began to rain so we decided to come home.  It POURED on the way back on I-94.  Both Jon and Jess slept on the way home and I took a nap when we got home.

A very nice day with my two very nice kids. 

Not A Good Physical Day

Usually I end up taking one pain pill a day, but tonight I'm about to make it a 2-pain pill day.  For some reason my entire body has been hurting.  I had my last PT today and cut some of exercises short because of the pain.  I'm counting on tomorrow being a better day.

I went to breakfast with Rachel and Jessie then we shopped at the dollar store.  When we got home Rachel, Jess and Memphis went on a long walk and I did paperwork and wash.  Rather exciting, wouldn't you say?

Shopping Again

Rachel watched Jess while I went to Bible Study then brought her to me around 11:15 a.m.  When we were finished with our small group, Jess and I went to Ocean Breeze for lunch (Jessie's request) then Meijer's for groceries.  No silly faces today - she was pretty good - only clobbered the back end of the electric amigo 4 times, but, hey.  That's not too bad.  At least it wasn't anyone else's back end.  I unloaded all the groceries and Jess took them all out of their bags.  She was a good helper today.

I was pooped when we got home so I sat down with my feet up and finished a book I was reading.  At one point, Jess jumped up, hollered something and ran over to me and took the blanket that I had laid next to me and covered me up with it and said, "Forgot!", which meant that I had forgotten to cover myself with the blanket.  That was nice.  She even made sure my toes were covered. 

Early Morning PT

What was I thinking when I scheduled a 9:15 PT appointment?  I should know better than to schedule an early morning anything.  I don't get up well.  I hurt and, well I hurt.  I think I rate a 9:15 a.m. PT appointment right up there with Water Aerobics at 9 a.m.  At least I'm done with Water Aerobics until after my surgery and PT - maybe I can go back in January.  I'll have to really motivate myself, though, because putting on a bathing suit (with clothes on top, of course!) and going out in cold, blustery winter weather isn't high on my list of things to do early in the morning, either.

Rachel was with Jess today and they spent time outside with Jess in her hammock.  They also went for a drive.  I met Jon for breakfast after PT then he went his way and I went mine - straight to Kohl's.  I needed a new watch band.  Did I get one?  Absolutely.  I also got alot more since I had a 30% off coupon.  As I stopped to look at this and that, I could almost hear Bill say: "Just keep walkin!"  Today would have been one of those days where he would have just rolled his eyes when I came in the door with 2 large bags.  And, now I have to go back because I received $30.00 in Kohl's bucks and my 30% coupon overlaps for a couple days.  Gotta get the most for the least!  If I plan it right, I can walk out of the store with a bagful and owe nothing. 

I spent the rest of the day preparing for Stephen Ministry, as I was facilitating our Continuing Ed tonight.  Both kids are now in bed and I'm on my way up, too!  Pleasant dreams.

We Saw Debbie Today

Jon, Jess and I went to breakfast then we visited Debbie.  It was just so neat to watch Jessie see Debbie for the first time since the accident.  She stared at her and grabbed her hand, as I told her not to give her a hug.  However, Debbie let her hug her.  Jess noticed the bruises on  her neck and touched them.  Debbie sat in a chair and Jess sat at her feet and just held her hand and kept kissing her hand.  I know it did a world of good for Jessie to actually see Debbie for herself.  Who knows what Jessie envisioned what Deb would look like? It was special just watching her hold her hand. 

It reminded me of when I haven't seen someone in a long time I just want to keep hugging them or holding their hand.  Like Lois when she comes home from Haiti.  We have said so many good byes in 30 years and just as many hellos.  When she gets off the plane we hug and I just want to hold her hand, I'm so glad to see her and be near her.  I miss her alot when she is not in Michigan. 

It also brings to my mind a spiritual picture of me sitting at Jesus' feet and holding His hand.  The time I spend in His presence is very special and I long for that closeness each day.  I know that the time Jessie spent with Debbie today was a very important part of Jessie's healing in the "loss" of Debbie's presence each day.  Please continue to pray for her physical, emotional and spiritual healing. 

Jessie's Day With Jane

Jessie had a great morning and early afternoon with Jane.  They ate breakfast together then Jane took Jess out for a couple hours.  They drove through McDonald's and brought it back to eat.  So, Jessie's Girl's Day Out was with Jane and not Mom today.

I had some work at church to do then went out to lunch with 3 other ladies.  I went to the post office and finally made it through construction traffic to get back home.  Yesterday it took me 10 minutes to go less than 1 mile.  I'll be so glad when they are finished with widening Van Dyke, that's for sure.

I did several loads of wash, interviewed and hired a part time worker for Jessie and worked on Stephen Ministry stuff.  Jon finished a 3-day stretch and he said that on the whole, it was a good 3 days. 

I was able to talk to Debbie this afternoon.  She's still in quite a bit of pain and can't use her arms very much, but healing is happening.  Jon, Jess and I are planning on visiting her in the morning.  I can't wait to see her, that's for sure.  I'm sure Jess is, too.

Another Birthday Celebration

My girlfriend, JoAnne, came today to "celebrate" my birthday.  I fixed a pork loin dinner then an hour later we drove to Menchie's and had dessert.  Chris came by later in the day on her way home from shopping after church and the three of us visited.  Jess watched videos on Utube all day, plus played with her beads and Apples 2 Apples cards.  Jon worked.  Memphis spent quite a bit of time on the deck.  It was a nice day, even though it was a little cool. 

Congratulations Adam and Jessica !!!

Jess and I went out to a late breakfast this morning for something to do.  We went to Dimitris and both had French toast, bacon and hot tea.  The waitress handed us our bills earlier but when we went to go to the counter to pay for them, she asked for them back.  Apparently a man paid for our meal!  Wow!  I was so stunned, I forgot to tell them to say "Thank You" to the man.  

 

When we got home I just rested all afternoon.  I was supposed to go to the wedding of Adam and Jessica's this afternoon but because it was raining and cold, I decided to just go to the reception at Monte Carlo.  Having surgery in a couple weeks I didn't want to take the chance of getting sick.  Very wimpy of me. 

 

Adam and Jessica were scheduled to be married in August, but she got Legionnaire's Disease and almost died.  I was told that it was a very emotional wedding ceremony - happy weepy!  The receiption was fun and if my knee was better, I would have dragged Diane out to the dance floor to at least do the chicken dance!  I never could get Bill out to the dance floor.   

Shopping With Jess

Well, I'm doing my best in keeping up with Jessie's schedule myself.  Rachel was pretty sick with either a cold or allergies, so she didn't come today.  Jon and I took Jessie out to breakfast, because that's what Friday's are ... breakfast out day.  From there I took her grocery shopping.  I used the amigo and she pushed the cart behind me.  What a trip.  Can you tell from the look on her face what a wonderful time she is having?  I tried to focus on what was in front of me, making her follow me.  Sometimes it worked and sometimes it didn't.  There were alot of shoppers in Meijer's, and quite a few toddlers.  None were noisy, but Jess got worked up anyway, expecting them to.  I ignored her and didn't play into her feelings.  She even scanned all items.  She does a really good job of that. 

Tonight was our Ladies Cupcake Social at church.  I think there were around 35/40 women who came out to get to know others, laugh, have fun and eat cupcakes.  It turned out well. Thanks goes to Jon for taking care of Jess tonight.  Both were asleep when I arrived home.